 You don’t have to be a father yet. You don’t have to be in a relationship.
But if you feel called to build something real — a strong family, a healthy partnership, a grounded legacy — this space was built for you. This isn’t about fixing what’s broken.
It’s about becoming the kind of man you were never shown how to be — present, powerful, emotionally anchored, and deeply respected.
At Amend, we don’t sell motivation. We create men who lead with purpose, love with clarity, and live with integrity — in their homes, in their relationships, and in the mirror.
Whether you're already raising children, preparing for fatherhood, rebuilding after a breakup, or done pretending everything’s fine — this is your next step.
This is self-leadership. This is where it starts.
 You tell yourself, “I’m just stressed” or “I’ll figure it out”.
But deep down, you know this isn’t just about today. It’s deeper. Older. These aren’t conscious choices. They’re patterns—built in survival, repeated in adulthood and now they’re shaping how you show up as a father, a partner, and a man.
You’re not broken. You’re repeating.
→ Repeating what you saw
→ Repeating what you never got
→ Repeating what no-one taught you how to face
Because here’s what most men never get told:
If you don’t face the pain you’ve buried, it will find its way into your relationships. In your tone, your absence, your temper, your distance. This isn’t weakness, its conditioning, and it’s costing you the connection you deeply want.
At Amend Movement, we work with men who are ready to interrupt those old patterns—not just for themselves, but for the people they love most. We don’t just teach coping strategies. We teach you how to reclaim emotional discipline, lead with clarity, and show up with strength and heart.
You’ll learn to:
→ Face what you’ve avoided without shame
→ Build connection without losing yourself
→ Create a calm, grounded presence your family can lean on
→ Lead your home, not from fear—but from truth
Because what you don’t heal, you hand down and this cycle doesn’t break until you decide to break it. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be willing. Willing to look in the mirror. To drop the mask and to lead from presence—not from your past. If you’re ready to stop being led by your old story—and start leading your life with strength, heart, and truth— This is your work.
Let’s rewrite the legacy together.
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If you have tried therapy and it hasn't worked or didn't align for you, well this is training and skills based, for the man who wants to become a conscious and present father. For the man who wants to be an aligned partner, who values understanding himself, his emotions and living peacefully. For all of us we wish there was a short cut - but the truth is it takes work, just like the gym or starting your own business. To unlearn the behaviours and patterns that are not serving you and to re-create the new ones in alignment with the life you truly want to live.
I'M READY FOR CHANGE
Online Program
Amends 12-week Intensive - life changing 'Emotional Leadership'Â program for men.
3 Day Retreats
'Command Your Life' retreat is for the man who wants to call in self-leadership.
1:1Â Counselling
Book online sessions with our experienced team and get support weekly, or through our packages.
Online Brotherhood
Our 'Online Brotherhood' is for men that have completed the 12-week intensive program only.
NDIS Services
Trusted NDIS support for men navigating mental health challenges - building better futures, together.
 Watene Waenga - The Founder of Amend Movement & Alan Ward - Co-Director, each man with a story of lived experience who set out on a mission to change their own lives first. They know how hard it can be being stuck in familiar patterns and cycles that keep us safe, what it takes to create change and also what it's like to be where you are right now. Hear about each man's incredible story to where they are now.
HEAR OUR STORYS
At Amend we truly understand what it's like to be a man in today's culture. We understand the pressures, issues and relational problems men are facing, men's issues with shame, what they're not communicating about and the frustrations they face in seeking support. Our method and how we support other men is tailored and specific to address these, where men actually feel heard and safe to express what's really not being navigated in their lives.
To truly feel vulnerable, we must create safe non-judgemental spaces for this to occur, or the cycles and the patterns repeat. Our facilitators are qualified, highly experienced and come from diverse backgrounds that have enabled a sense of resemblance for each man who attends our events, counselling or online platforms. This is to support men to clearly identify their needs and provide them with the necessary tools and space to process their insights. It's also teaches them how to effectively integrate these tools into their daily lives.
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This isn’t your typical men’s podcast. This is a space where we go deep — into the real conversations men aren’t having but need to. Hosted by Amend Movement founder Watene and Alan, this podcast is born from years of frontline work in men’s mental health, emotional leadership, trauma healing, and the transformation of fathers, partners, and brothers. Whether you’re navigating fatherhood, working on your relationship, healing from your past, or simply wanting to become the man you know you’re capable of being — this is for you.
