Command Your Life Retreat

A 3-Day Men's Retreat for Those Ready to Lead from the Front

This isn’t just a retreat, It’s a line in the sand.
For men who are done being passive in their own lives — and ready to command it instead. Whether you’re a father, a partner, or a man who's trying to do the work before getting back into a relationship — this space is for you.
You don’t have to have it all figured out, but you do have to be willing to face what’s been holding you back and take ownership of the man you're becoming.

This Retreat Is for You If You:

→ Are a father who wants to show up better for your kids

→ Are a partner who wants to lead with strength, not with pressure

→ Are single, but know deep down you want to be a great dad or partner one day

→ Are done chasing success while ignoring what matters most — your emotional leadership

Amend runs these retreats 2 times per year, with each location announced 3 months in advance. We've previously hosted in Perth, WA and the Gold Coast, QLD, bringing together men from across the country who are ready to drop the mask and step into something real.

You’ll uncover the belief systems, emotional patterns, and survival habits that have quietly shaped your life — and you'll learn how to break free from them. Whether it’s in fatherhood, relationships, or a previous relationship — you’ll gain the tools to stop repeating the same cycles and start building a version of you that your future family, partner, and self will be proud of.

You'll leave with:

→ Clarity on who you are, and who you're becoming

→ Confidence built on emotional strength, not ego

→ A framework to lead your life with discipline, purpose, and heart

Upon arrival at our retreat venue, you will be greeted by the facilitation team, shown your rooms and we get straight into the first task of the day.

From arrival to the very last task and closing ceremony you will be supported at the deepest level among the brothers you will make for life. this journey is for the man whom is willing to meet himself at the deepest level and push through the resistance and discomfort that change requires - this is where we learn deeply about ourselves over 3 days together.

FACE THE WAR WITHIN

Break the beliefs that are breaking yourself and your relationships. You’ll uncover the unconscious rules you’ve been living by — the shame stories, the childhood conditioning, and the inherited patterns that have silently shaped how you show up as a man. This day is about truth-telling. No more hiding. If you want to lead, it starts with facing what’s holding you back.

FORGE THE NEW IDENTITY

Your family doesn’t need the perfect man — they need the real you. This day is about creating the man you want your children to remember. You’ll define your values, build a new vision, and sharpen the mindset and habits required to lead your household — not through control, but through consistency, strength, and presence.

BECOME THE ANCHOR

Real change isn’t what you say — it’s what you embody. Integration is where most men fall short. Not here. You’ll lock in rituals, practices, and emotional tools to stay grounded under pressure. You'll learn how to regulate your nervous system, reconnect when things fall apart, and lead through conflict with calm authority. Because your partner and kids need a rock, not a reactor.