You want to be a great dad, A grounded partner. A man your family can rely on—not just for money or protection, but presence. But something keeps pulling you away. The outbursts. The shutdowns. The silence when things get hard. 

You tell yourself, “I’m just stressed” or “I’ll figure it out.”

But deep down, you know this isn’t just about today. It’s deeper. Older. These aren’t conscious choices. They’re patterns—built in survival, repeated in adulthood and now they’re shaping how you show up as a father, a partner, and a man. You’re not broken.

You’re repeating.

→ Repeating what you saw.

→ Repeating what you never got.

→ Repeating what no one taught you how to face.

Because here’s what most men never get told:

If you don’t face the pain you’ve buried, it will find its way into your relationships. In your tone. Your absence. Your temper. Your distance. This isn’t weakness. It’s conditioning, and it’s costing you the connection you deeply want.

At Amend Movement, we work with men who are ready to interrupt those old patterns—not just for themselves, but for the people they love most. We don’t just teach coping strategies. We teach you how to reclaim emotional discipline, lead with clarity, and show up with strength and heart.

You’ll learn to:

→ Face what you’ve avoided without shame

→ Build connection without losing yourself

→ Create a calm, grounded presence your family can lean on

→ Lead your home, not from fear—but from truth

Because what you don’t heal, you hand down and this cycle doesn’t break until you decide to break it.

You don’t have to be perfect.

You just have to be willing.

Willing to look in the mirror. To drop the mask and to lead from presence—not from your past. If you’re ready to stop being led by your old story—and start leading your life with strength, heart, and truth—

This is your work.

Let’s rewrite the legacy together.

If you have tried therapy and it hasn't worked or didn't align for you, well this is training and skills based for the man who wants to become a conscious and present father, for the man who wants to be an aligned partner who values understanding himself, his emotions and living peacefully. For all of us we wish there was a short cut - but the truth is it takes work just like the gym or starting your own business, to unlearn the behaviours and patterns that are not serving you and to re-create the new ones in alignment with the life you truly want to live.

 Watene Waenga - The Founder of Amend Movement & Alan Ward, each man with a story of lived experience who set out on a mission to change their own lives first, they know how hard it can be being stuck in familiar patterns and cycles that keep us safe, what it takes to create change and also what it's like to be where you are right now. Amend has supported men all over Australia and New Zealand since 2019 - Men of all ages, backgrounds and life paths.