Are you the man who...

→ Feels stuck in survival patterns, anger, withdrawal, emotional shutdown → Wants to break free from emotional reactions that sabotage his relationships

→ Keeps repeating cycles of disconnection, addiction or emotional isolation → Find yourself people pleasing, avoiding conflict or needing to control to feel secure

→ Is committed to becoming the grounded father, partner, and man his family can trust and respect → Knows he's capable of more, but feels blocked, exhausted or on auto pilot

If this speaks to you — you already know: This work is for you

Why This Matters?

In Australia and New Zealand, the statistics are heavy — Relationship breakdowns, fractured families, and absent fathers are leaving a trail of men broken, isolated, and lost. Too many men carry wounds they were never taught how to heal and instead wear masks just to get through the week.

Behind the rising male suicide rates lies a common thread:

→ Men who were raised by emotionally unavailable fathers. → A culture of men who silence their needs, lack emotional language and an ability to understand or process their emotions. → Men operating in survival mode — until they can’t hold their mask any longer.

This ends here.

This program is for the men who are ready to change the story for themselves, their families, and the communities who desperately need them. 

“This is a 12-Week Program for Men Ready to Lead Themselves, Their Relationships, and Their Lives" 

Inside every man is a boy who learned to survive — through anger, withdrawal, shutdown, or fighting back. But survival patterns won’t build the life you’re here to create. They won’t build the father you want to be. They won’t build the man your family needs. The Emotional Leadership Program is a 12-week training designed to transform the way you lead yourself — internally and externally.

You will not just heal old wounds.

You will build the emotional strength, regulation, and leadership required to live, love, and lead powerfully.

When you sign up and commit to 'The Emotional Leadership' Program, you’re not just enrolling in a program—you’re investing in a massive life shift.

This program will equip you with the edge, one that comes from understanding yourself on an exceptionally deep level. Imagine being able to identify where all your behaviour patterns originate, understanding how to reshape them to craft the life you truly want. 

By completing this program, you will gain invaluable insights into yourself that most never realise in their lifetime. You will learn how to pivot away from unhelpful habits and towards positive practices that support your goals. Whether it’s excelling in your career, becoming the kind of father, you aspire to be, or being a peaceful and loving partner.

This program gives you the tools to succeed

→ Heal the wounded boy inside and rebuild emotional safety from within. 

→ Build self-leadership through emotional regulation, awareness, and disciplined action.

→ Break survival patterns like avoidance, anger, shutdown, or people-pleasing

 → Master emotional intensity without being ruled by it.

→ Lead yourself, your partner, your family, and your life from a place of grounded strength.

 → Develop foundational skills for connection, healthy communication, and managing disconnection.

→ Navigate conflict powerfully without damaging the ones you love.

→ Learn how to meet your core needs as a man without outsourcing your worth to others.

→ Build a clear daily roadmap — aligned actions that forge the man you choose to become.

Brother, here’s the real truth

You don’t rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your emotional leadership. It’s time to raise the man you lead yourself as — and everything around you will rise with you.

This program was built around you. Not theory. Not trends. YOU. 

Most programs feed you content, tick a few boxes, and leave you to figure the rest out. That’s not this. We’re not here to throw you a workbook and wish you luck.

We built this around your real life—the pressure, the guilt, the emotional weight you’ve been dragging for years as a man, a father, and a partner.

At the core of this journey is your roadmap.
That means getting brutally honest about who you are, what’s been running the show behind the scenes, and what it actually takes to lead yourself and your family with clarity and strength—especially when life hits hard.

Every week, we dive in live on Zoom. No fluff. No hiding. No passive learning. Just straight-up coaching, conversation, and transformation led by Watene and Alan.

And then there’s the weekend workshops.
2 days. 4 hours each. Immersive, intense, and deeply personal. These aren’t lectures. These are confrontations—with the stories you’ve been stuck in, the patterns that sabotage you, and the man you say you want to be.

Bring all of it, Your anger. Your shame. Your disconnection. Your doubts. We don’t push it aside—we go straight into it, because that’s where the real work lives.

Here’s the truth:

The little boy you’ve been carrying is still running the show in how you fight, how you shut down, how you avoid, how you parent and how you love. We’re not here to shame him. We’re here to teach you how to finally lead him—with strength, compassion, and direction. This is the work. This is the turning point. You want to be a better man? Show up. We’ve got you.